Sexual experiences in a dream usually reflect pleasurable experiences. Sex
in a dream can also reflect your sexual interests.
*Please See Cheating.
Adult Sex Store
To dream of an
adult sex store represents feelings about considering making a choice
that feels good for you, but may be seem inappropriate or childish
to others. Uncomfortable feelings about enjoying too much freedom.
Embarrassment that other people think are a total idiot who doesn't
take life seriously. Feeling that other people will think you are
a "giant jerkoff" who wastes their time having fun.
an adult sex shop could reflect feelings about enjoying experimenting
with your life in new and exciting ways that others might feels is
adult sex shop may reflect feelings about choosing to give up on serious
choices for your life to pursue happiness in ways others might find.
Enjoying being a school dropout. Preferring to enjoy life as a simple
person with no desire to conform to society's norms. Feeling good
pretending or orchestrating a giant lie that might have serious consequences
for your future. Fear of yourself preferring to choose to enjoy wasting
your life in ways others think is stupid or
Example: A young
girl dreamed of going into an adult sex ship for the very first time
in her life and seeing all kinds of sex toys. In waking life she was
considering dropping out of college to experiment with becoming an
yoga instructor and felt that all her friends and family might think
it's a childish idea to enjoy too much freedom when should should
be preparing seriously for her future.
To dream of anal sex symbolizes the creation of problems or negative
experiences. Life experiences that totally "screw you over",
and leave you with unresolved problems. It reflects choices
that never lead to anything productive.
Anal sex in a dream is a sign that a situation is being made worse
or that you feel you are getting "the shaft" from someone. Anal
sex may also be a sign that you are giving in to bad habits.
To dream of anal rape symbolizes a sense of powerlessness to stop
a problem from "screwing you over." You may that
problems are being made for you or that they are too big to overcome.
Example: A man dreamed of his father having anal sex with
him. In real life he had a moral dilemma that poor choices
were exacerbating. His father having anal sex with him
reflected a bad conscience making the problem worse.
Example 2: A man dreamed of a demon anally raping another man. In
real life this man was experiencing his business being totally destroyed
and felt powerless to stop it. The demon rape reflected
his perception of horrible and unfair it felt to witness his business
To dream of having AIDS or sexually transmitted diseases represents
thoughts and feelings associated with choices or mistakes that fill
you with powerful regret. You may feel permanently contaminated, ruined,
AIDS or STDs can
also be symbols associated regrets or concerns over sexual partners
you've had. You may feel dirty, or violated.
Example: A young
man had recurring dreams of having AIDS. In waking life he regretted
losing virginity with someone he didn't care about at all.
Example 2: A man
dreamed of seeing someone with AIDS. In waking life he experiencing
total financial loss after not having listened to advice he was given.
To dream of having
bestiality sex may represent waking life situations where you are
enjoying yourself doing something that is not in someone else's best
interest. Knowing you can do whatever you want to someone without
consequences. Consider the animal for additional symbolism.
To dream of getting
caught having bestiality sex may reflect total embarrassment that
you were being arrogant, controlling, or selfish. Feeling that your
reputation is ruined forever due to selfish or negligent behavior.
To dream of reading
bestiality porn may represent your desire to freely use someone else
with consequences. Daydreaming or fantasizing about exploitative behavior
that you can't experience for real.
To dream of a
bisexual person may reflect conflict between masculine and feminine
qualities. An aspect of yourself that is both sensitive and insensitive,
passive and assertive, or controlling and compliant. It may reflect
you or someone else that is playing both sides of a situation.
a bisexual in a dream may represent you or someone else that desires
to "have it all." It may also reflect an openness to all
possibilities or choices. You or someone else that likes everything.
If you are straight
and find yourself attracted to a person of the same sex it may simply
reflect how nice something feels or how desireable a situation is.
Ask yourself what one thing stands out the most about the person you
were attracted to and how that quality may apply to your life.
To dream of a cockring represents an area of your life where you are
powerful, effective, or capable and are doing everything you can to
stay that way.
You may have a
skill, trick, or something that gives you leverage and are exploiting
it for it's full potential.
To dream of a condom symbolizes thinking patterns that are counter-productive
to goals, objectives, or attaining what you desire. It can both good
or bad depending on who is having sex in the dream and what qualities
they symbolize in you.
condom may reflect your attempts to prevent emotional pain. Negatively,
a condom may represent negative thinking patterns that hold you back.
Since sex in dream
is usually symbolic of merging qualities that create life experiences,
a condom symbolizes something you are thinking or doing that prevents
that from happening.
*Please See Sex.
To dream of contraception represents thoughts about preventing or
avoiding the creation of something new, such as a project or a relationship.
It may also reflect a desire to be in control and avoid taking risks
or being vulnerable. Alternatively, it may symbolize a fear of consequences
or responsibility that come with new ventures or situations.
*Please See Condoms.
To dream of a dildo represents feeling good dishonestly asserting
yourself and getting away with it. Feeling that it's easy to assert
yourself in a fake way. Emptily enjoying asserting yourself while
not needing anyone else. Solution to a problem that isn't beautiful,
but works. Using lies to assert yourself that you don't want to tell
anyone the truth about. Feeling about asserting yourself with cheating
that you don't want to tell anyone the truth about. Relying on fake
to manage a situation because it's faster. Feeling good not needing
anyone else. Feeling good figuring out a problem all by yourself.
Feeling that you are lacking something special in life. Having no
jealousy that you can always feel good on your own if you need to.
about a dildo may reflect feeling that it's unintelligent to dishonestly
assert yourself in a fake way. Anxiety that you are easily replaced
and powerless to satisfy someone else's needs. Disappointment that
someone doesn't need you to have a good time. Feeling that people
are too pathetic or cowardly to satisfy your needs. Feeling disappointed
that nobody qualifies to support your needs. Embarrassment of enjoying
yourself while alone in ways others might find socially unusual. Feeling
stupid enjoying being by yourself. Fear or discomfort of someone else
that enjoys never needing you. Asserting yourself with cheating because
you need to. A passive person's embarrassing attempt to enjoy asserting
themselves or feel good on their own. Feeling good not loving someone
all the time while they do everything for you.
a dildo in a dream may reflect a lack of happiness in your sex life.
A feminine assertive attitude about sex that doesn't care about what
the man is feeling.
Example: A man
dreamed of seeing his ex-girlfriend in the backseat of his tow truck
using a dildo while she had no legs. In waking life he was talking
to his ex-girlfriend again. In this case the dildo may have reflected
his feelings about his ex-girlfriend dishonestly claiming she was
happy never needing him.
Example 2: A woman
dreamed of seeing black and white drawings of a penis, followed by
color photographs of a dildo, followed by color photographs of a fake
vagina. In waking life she she was studying to pass her high-school
equivalency test. In this case the color photographs of dildos may
have reflected her feelings about remembering herself feeling stupid
for having to dishonestly assert herself cheating on her test while
enjoying talking about passing the test.
Doggy Style Sex Position
To dream of doggy style sex represents a person or situation in waking
life that feels good being easy to control. Enjoying noticing someone
in your life letting you boss them around. Liking to feel yourself
having to be in control unquestioned. Enjoying being given total control
or power. Subordination that feels good being easy and automatic. Enjoying
controlling someone because you are more attractive or interesting
then they are.
Enjoying controlling or directing someone. Enjoying directing a situation.
Feeling good having control that accepts you as in control. Enjoying
controlling a pleasurable situation. Enjoying being accepted as an
unquestioned leader of someone subordinate.
style sex in a dream may reflect too much enjoyment of controlling
someone else. Exploiting controlling someone's good nature for fun.
Enjoying thinking you are too attractive or important to be questioned.
Enjoying yourself too much leading or exploiting a person who listens
If you find yourself
having sex with a girl who is bent over in the doggy style position
this may symbolize something you wanted in life being handed to you.
Something you wanted to think, feel, or experience easily happens.
Easy power, control, or gains.
If you find yourself
in the doggy style position, this may represent how you giving someone
else easy power, control, or gains. Letting someone else enjoy themselves
controlling you or getting something they wanted from you easy. It
may also reflect your feelings that someone else is too attractive
to ignore or reject. Enjoying being passive. Negatively, being bent
over the doggy style position may reflect feelings that someone is
too big or powerful to ignore. Humiliation that some else gets to
control you without question.
Example: A man
dreamed of having doggy style sex with a woman he knew. In waking
life he was enjoying himself totally controlling this woman with his
advice. The woman had a huge secret crush on him and was doing almost
everything he asked her to do.
To dream of ejaculation represents the finality of a decision. You
have chosen to do whatever it takes to make a choice, or do something. Feeling
good making a choice.
To ejaculate during sex represents the finality of a choice that produces
a new life situation, habit, or insight.
To ejaculate outside the body represents unproductive choices, or
disappointments. Feeling good never having to be serious
about a final choice. Enjoying experiencing something without
any obligations or new problems created.
To dream of a person ejaculating on another person represents feelings
of lingering failure, unfulfilled promises, or disappointments. One
aspect of your personality created a problem for another one. Intentional
humilation of others with more power than them.
To dream of an erection represents motivated interest. You or someone
else that is feeling excited about winning. Something in your life
is motivating you to try harder to succeed or feel good "getting
ahead" in life.
also reflect how powerful or capable you feel. They may also symbolize
your current sexual interests.
Example: A man
dreamed of getting an erection. In waking life he was experiencing
renewed interest in reviving his business after a long period of stagnation.
He was experiencing renewed motivation to succeed financially.
To dream of fingering
a vagina represents feelings of trying to make someone feel good doing
what you tell them to do. Manipulating someone into submission using
in a dream may reflect enjoyment with small harmless risks that could
end up being more dangerous than you think. Feeling that you don't
have to be 100% involved in something dangerous in order to enjoy
it. Awareness of yourself exploiting someone using pleasure. Feeling
manipulated by someone else who is using pleasure or excitement to
lure you. Risk of being "played" or used by someone powerful
*Please See Masturbation.
*Please See Handjobs.
To dream of a
handjob represents waking life situations where there is need to please
someone else quickly or cheaply. A reluctant need to make someone
else feel good to keep them happy or keep them supporting you. Pleasing
someone whom is impatiently waiting. A mandatory need to show someone
they matter. Talking about someone in a flattering way so they feel
respected. Keeping a jerk happy.
handjob may reflect feelings of having to serve someone or make them
feel good about themselves when it's inconvenient. Feeling like a
loser that has to tell someone you don't respect that they matter.
Making someone feel good so they will stop complaining. Feeling disgusted
having to please someone. Feeling that you need to do a favor for
someone you consider a lowlife, scumbag, or jerk.
To dream of getting
a handjob represents feelings about being pleased by others with the
intention to get it over with quickly. A quick solution to your complaints.
Feeling good not being ignored. Feeling good being talked about in
a flattering way. Feeling that someone has no choice about needing
to show you that you matter. Feeling that someone is doing you quick
favor in order to get you to shut up.
about getting a handjob may reflect enjoyment of exploiting an opportunity
to tell others what to do. Not trusting someone to respect your feelings
at a later time. Demanding a quick or dirty solution that only feels
good for you. Making someone who doesn't like you talk about you like
they do. Awareness of yourself acting like a scumbag.
To dream of gay sex represents enjoyment of a situation that is noticed
by others as abnormal or unacceptable all the time. Enjoying that
doing something that is always noticed as difficult to explain by
others. Enjoyment of a situation that is difficult to make accepted
by others. Enjoying yourself that makes other people feel something
is permanently difficult to accept or explain with you. Enjoying something
regularly that makes other people think is too odd to want to enjoy
themselves. Enjoying your life the way it is without concern for appearances
when other people might care about appearances.
of gay sex may reflect feelings about enjoyment of a situation that
is vain or vague about why it's noticed not behaving normal. Enjoyment
of a situation that is difficult to have accepted by others. A lack
of concern about enjoying something you know is wrong to do or makes
others feel uncomfortable. Enjoying an abnormal situation that you
know may bring backlash or have consequences. Feelings about appearances
enjoying something other people may not approve of.
To have gay sex
that you don't enjoy may reflect feelings of being involved in abnormal
situations that others like, but you don't like. Feeling used for
another person's enjoyment of something questionable. Unpleasant homosexual
sex may reflect feelings of enduring a very unpleasant situation that
is noticed by others as abnormal.
To dream of being
raped by a member of the same sex may represent a sense of powerlessness
to control a situation that is abnormal, questionable, or difficult
to have accepted by others. Men raped by men may reflect powerlessness
to control an insensitive situation that intentionally cares about
nothing your feeling. Men dreaming of being raped may also reflect
feelings about being ripped off during a questionable situation.
a homosexual can be symbolic of your sexual desires if you are gay,
or have homosexual curiosity. Men with pregnant wives often dream
of having homosexual sex. This may reflect their feelings about how
immoral or wrong it feels to have sex while knowing that a child is
alive inside their wives during sex.
Example: A woman
dreamed of having gay sex. In waking life she felt forced to enjoy
herself being single without her boyfriend while uncomfortable about
appearances in public for doing so.
Example 2: A man
dreamed of being raped by a demon. In waking life he was having concerns
about being ripped off in a drug deal.
Example 3: A woman dreamed of having homosexual sex when she thought
homosexuality was immoral. In waking life she was a widow in a new
relationship. The homosexual sex in the dream may have reflected her
feelings about enjoying herself in an unacceptable or immoral fashion
*Please See Sex.
To dream of being impotent or sexually incapable represents thoughts
or feelings associated with insecurity and powerlessness in waking
life situations. You may feel unable to control events
in your life, or respond to problems. You are ineffective
in some way.
Incest in dreams can be a difficult symbol to define. The
dreaming mind does not usually discern between what's moral or immoral.
The act of sex itself represents the merging of two personality traits
or qualities. So sex with parents, siblings, or other family
members is most often just a symbol for different personality traits
or qualities merging. The family members are usually like
any other dream symbols...personality traits based on your opinions,
feelings, or memories of them.
If you not aware of the incest as it occurs in the dream, and feel
like there nothing wrong with it , then the incest as a symbol is
probably irrelevant. The sex is the most significant symbol. The
family member is just an emotionally awkward or uncomfortable symbol.
Sex with parents may reflect a positive experience you've had making
To be aware of incest in a dream, to overhear talk of it, or feel
that it is wrong represents taboo, or a lack of acceptance for something.
Alternatively, you may have personal issues with a family member you
need to address.
If you have experienced incest in real life then you may be having
problems dealing with that or are reexamining the past.
Example: A man dreamed of his father slowly pushing his penis
into his bum. In waking life he was conscious of himself
about to make a bad decision that would have consequences. His
father trying to have anal sex with him reflected his conscience or
ability to make a decision that was about to screw him over.
*Please See Cheating.
Lotus Sex Position
To dream of the
lotus sex position represents an enjoyable experience where you like
needing or depending on something.
Example: A young
women dreamed of having sex in the lotus position, being rudely interrupted,
and then talking to the guy on the phone asking him if he wants to
do it again and the phone went silent. In waking life she was losing
her dorm at school. The lotus style sex may have reflected her feelings
about enjoying having a dorm and needing it for school.
To dream of masturbating
represents pleasing yourself mentally or emotionally. Fantasizing,
daydreaming, or pleasant thoughts about desires, wishes, or goals. Things
that may not be realistic at the moment. You or some aspect
of your personality is more focused on enjoying yourself or being
successful than on true achievement or real life experiences.
You may see masturbating
in a dream when you are spending a lot of time daydreaming about enjoying
success, leisure, or using power to attain what you want in life.
Positively, dreaming of masturbating represents feeling good by yourself
because everything else is too pathetic to waste your time with. Feeling
being safe on your own because every other option is too dangerous,
ignorant, or pathetic to waste your time with. Enjoyable experiences
with yourself are better than with other people. Feeling that nobody
is good enough or worthy enough to enjoy spending time with you. Relying
on yourself to have a good time because every person or option available
to you is too boring, ugly, unintelligent, or immoral to accept. Feeling
that there is nothing special at all about something enjoyable and
you just want to get it out of the way to go back to more interesting
or professional experiences.
To dream of being molested represents feelings of being violated in
some way that gives other enjoyment. Feeling that your good nature
is being taken advantage of. You may feel humiliated or that your
trust has been abused. There may be a person with a domineering influence
over you or that you're having an bitter dispute with.
also reflect corruption of innocence. Taking advantage or abusing
someone else's innocence. Corruption of someone's untapped potential
for personal gain. Jealousy of having been taken advantage of while
being less experienced than others or when you were a novice.
molestation in a dream may reflect real concerns about a child being
negatively influenced while you are not around. Feeling that someone
will feel good teaching your child bad things or corrupting their
innocence. Trust issues with your children.
Dreams of being
molested may be a symptom of post traumatic stress. If you have been
molested in real life then you may need to speak to a professional.
Example: A woman
dreamed of being concerned about a child molester. In waking life
she was concerned about leaving her child with her ex-husband because
she felt his new wife hated her and that she couldn't trust her.
Example 2: A woman
dreamed of being tied to a bed and molested. In waking life she felt
it was unfair that someone would keep taking advantage of her good
nature by asking for too much help.
*Please See Pedophile.
To dream of oral sex represents feelings of total submission. Serving
others or doing whatever someone else wants. Doing all this asked
or required in a way that makes life easier for someone else. Completely
catering to others needs
sex can represent helping other people or a total concern for their
interests. Feeling that someone is making your life a lot easier.
It could also point to enemies becoming completely subordinate to
you. Feelings about life being too easy for you.
sex may reflect caving in completely to fear or giving all your power
away to a subordinate state. Feeling disgusted with yourself for having
let someone feel powerful over you with their arrogant fantasies.
Alternatively, it may also reflect feelings of surprise that someone
would do you a favor. You may not be respecting yourself enough to
believe you deserve something easy happening to you.
To dream of getting
oral sex represents feelings about a person or life situation doing
whatever you want or ask. Experiences where you are feeling good being
helped perfectly. Enjoying favors, gifts, or something free.
To dream of someone
evil or negative getting oral sex represents a negative situation
that is subordinated to. Giving up all power to someone that will
abuse it. Alternatively, it may reflect your own abuse of others good
nature or compliance. Enjoying having a "slave."
To dream of giving
oral sex to an ex-girlfriend or boyfriend you still fantasize about
can represent you empowering your sexual desire for them. A sign that
you need to put more effort into getting over them. Alternatively,
it may reflect subordination in some way.
Example: A man
dreamed of seeing Satan getting oral sex. In waking life he had succumbed
to his drug addiction. He felt powerless to stop himself from giving
in to the "evil" of his addiction that he felt wasted his
Example 2: A woman
dreamed of seeing a small dog giving her oral sex. In waking life
she had gone back to school to train for a new job and found that
school was too easy. She felt like her new education was being given
Example 3: A man dreamed of his older sister giving him oral sex.
In waking life he was experiencing a lot of success with his business,
but it required managing responsibilities in ways he wasn't expecting.
Example 4: A woman dreamed of giving oral sex to her ex-boyfriend's
ex-girlfriend while the ex-boyfriend watched. In waking life she was
uncomfortable doing favors for her ex-boyfriend by babysitting the
daughter he had with another woman.
To dream of an
orgasm represents you or some aspect of your personality that is satisified
with a choice, or happy with the results of a new life situation.
To dream of an orgy represents aspects of your personality that are
totally focused on sexual desire, or desire for things you want. You
can't stop thinking about what you want or people that you're attracted
Orgies have a tendency to show up in dreams when someone is having
excessive sexual fantasies, and desires. When you see an
orgy in a dream it may be a sign that you need to resist desire for
attractive people and reduce any exposure to pornography.
Alternatively, dreaming about an orgy may reflect pleasurable waking
life situations where a lot of different people are working together.
It may also reflect feelings about total freedom to enjoy yourself
in a large number ways without any restraints at all.
An orgy could also symbolize a number of different personality traits
or qualities you have merging together into a life experience.
To dream of a pornography video represents a life experience where
you are feeling good doing nothing. Desiring, fantasizing,
or dreaming about having something you want. Goals, wishes,
or aspirations that feel good, but may be out of reach. Pornography
may also reflect delusions or unrealistic fantasies.
Pornography may appear in the dreams of a man who can't tell a woman
he likes her, ex-partners who fantasize about former lovers, someone
planning a vacation, or a business man working on a project he hopes
will be successful.
Negatively, pornography may reflect problems with desiring things
you don't believe you can realistically have. Trusting nice sounding
promises too much. Embarrassing yourself liking something or someone
that never proves itself. It may also reflect intense insecurity or
jealousy of partners cheating on you sexually.
To dream of pornography photos represents memories you have that feel
good to think about.
Pornography can also be a sign of excessive sexual fantasies and daydreaming. You
may be thinking about someone you desire and don't believe you can
To dream of someone you know in pornography may represent you fantasies
about them. Something that is common for ex-lovers.
Example: A man dreamed of watching pornography. In waking
life he was passionately in love with his ex-girlfriend whom he fantasized
about getting back together with when she showed no interest in him.
Example 2: A woman dreamed of seeing pornography on her fiancee's
cellphone. In waking life she had just had a baby and was becoming
jealous and insecure about her fiancee losing interest in her and
starting to cheat on her.
To dream of a porn star that you know represents feeling good wanting
something that never materializes. Ask yourself what feelings or memories
stand out most about that porn star for further symbolism.
An ugly porn star
would possibly represent your feelings of how unpleasant it feels
to wait or doing nothing while being told to feel good about it.
To dream of being
a porn star represents your interest in making others desire things
that may never happen. You may be lying to someone or trying to make
someone feel good being patient.
Example: A man
dreamed of a porn star named Kira Kener. His most honest feeling about
this porn star was that she was so beautiful he couldn't think of
anything else. In waking life he had a long standing health condition
that finally began to slowly improve. Kira Kener in his dream reflected
how preoccupied he was with how wonderful it was to heal while never
To dream of a prostitute represents an aspect of your personality
that sells itself out. It may reflect your self-interest before higher
ideals or being more concerned with money than anything else.
dreaming of a prostitute may reflect you or someone else that provides
a service whenever they are asked to. You or someone else that is
easy to use.
prostitute may represent "caving in" or giving up higher
ideals as soon as pressure is felt. Abusing talents, or lowering your
standards, morals, or principles for personal benefit. Getting ahead
or enjoying yourself without any regard for standards or quality.
Men with pregnant
wives commonly dream of having sex with prostitutes. This may reflect
their impersonal feelings about using their wife to have sex when
she too pregnant to be in the mood.
Example: A man
dreamed of a seeing a prostitute walking towards him. In waking life
he spoke a second language fluently and someone who needed his help
kept offering to pay him to do translations. The prostitute reflect
his willingness to do whatever he was asked when paid.
(Girl On Top)
To dream of riding sex represents a positive experience where someone
or something is catering to another. Feeling good noticing
something being done for you.
If you are riding someone it may reflect a positive experience where
you are doing all the work for someone. If you are being
ridden it reflects a positive experience where someone is doing all
the work for you.
Riding sex can point to situations where you like someone so much
that you enjoy doing anything you can for them. Negatively, it
can point to a person in your life that you are allowing to use you.
Example: A young man dreamed of having riding sex with another
male friend where he was the girl. In waking life he enjoying
hiding his friend from the police.
To dream about sex represents a positive and pleasurable experience
in your waking life that feels exhilarating and as good as it can
get. This enjoyable and thrilling experience is deeply personal and
just for you. The person you have sex with in the dream represents
a quality you recognize in yourself or a situation that you find fulfilling
and enjoyable. Thinking of everything required to be safe to have
a thrilling experience. A thrilling experience that you privately
aren't telling anyone about being thrilling to you. A sense of disbelief
that you are allowed to have such an enjoyable or thrilling experience,
as it doesn't happen in all your usual encounters with people.
the thoughts, feelings, or memories that stand out the most to you
about the person you have sex with represents what you are experiencing
more of in your life.
if you have sex with a celebrity it may symbolize a quality you see
in that celebrity coming out of you or enjoying an activity you associate
with that celebrity.
sex in a dream may reflect your most private thoughts about your own
of being unable to find a safe place to have sex may represent challenges
in expressing yourself, doing what you like, or pursuing your interests
due to conflicting feelings or external complications. Interests or
goals may be sidetracked by complications or conflicting feelings.
You might be struggling to find a secure and comfortable environment
to connect intimately with someone or to fully explore your desires
and passions. Alternatively, it may reflect your inability to be close
or intimate in your relationship.
of having sex interrupted represents outside forces intruding on your
private time, relationship, or ability to enjoy what you are doing.
Your career, personal commitments, or other distractions may be interfering
with your love life or your ability to focus on your passions. External
elements are spoiling your special moment or your opportunity to shine.
of having sex with a person who has something wrong with them may
represent your enjoyment of feeling needed or superior in some way.
An enjoyable or thrilling experience that is limited, less capable,
or feels lucky to happen at all. A thrilling enjoyable experience
that doesn't think of what average people do. Enjoying yourself in
a way that can't be 100%, but still feels good anyway. You may also
be enjoying the role of being more desirable, important, or interesting
than someone else. Alternatively, it could also symbolize your enjoyment
of an experience that has vulnerability or imperfections.
of having sex with someone in public may represent attention you are
attracting yourself with your personal interests or achievements.
A thrilling experience where you don't care what anyone else thinks
about it. Your private life being made public or other people speculating
about your life. A fear of being exposed or judged by others.
of having sex with a vanishing partner represents a thrilling experience
that initially excites you but eventually loses its appeal or significance.
Your confidence in the situation may wane, and you might feel that
the experience wasn't as incredible as you initially believed. This
dream could also symbolize a lack of commitment, an inadequate partnership,
or feelings of insecurity in a relationship. It may indicate sexual
or romantic frustrations and a sense of uncertainty about the connection
or bond you once had with someone.
of a having sex with a faceless person represents a enjoyable or thrilling
experience that allows you to learn more about what really pleases
you. Feeling good with something you are undecided about, enjoying
being single or trying new things, and feeling free in not knowing
what you really want. Exploring your desires and passions without
the constraints of a specific identity or emotional attachment. An
enjoyable or thrilling experience where you don't really know what
someone thinks about you, or why something is the way it is.
of having sex with yourself may reflect your enjoyment of showing
off your skills or experience to others. Having a good time being
the center of attention or showing off. An enjoyable experience where
you feel you are the most important. Negatively, it may be a sign
that you are going too far enjoying showboating or asserting yourself.
Enjoying yourself thinking your more attractive or better than other
people. Being so in love with yourself that you don't see it as a
problem. This dream could serve as a reminder to maintain a balance
between self-confidence and humility.
of foreplay or sexual activity in a bedroom that never leads to full
sex may reflect unfulfilled desires, hesitations, or insecurities
in your waking life. It could signify that you are contemplating taking
action on something enjoyable or thrilling but are unable to commit
or follow through completely. Potential opportunities or experiences
that are within your reach but remain unexplored. It might suggest
that you are struggling to overcome personal barriers or external
factors that prevent you from fully embracing these opportunities.
You may need to assess your priorities and work on building the confidence
and determination necessary to pursue your desires and passions more
of chasing someone to have sex may reflect feelings of longing, desire,
or frustration in your waking life that an enjoyable or thrilling
experience alludes you or isn't achievable. Feeling that someone is
making it difficult for you to like yourself the way you want to.
Your feelings about other people never wanting to have a good time
with you. A common dream for elderly people.
of people watching you have sex may reflect feelings of vulnerability,
exposure, or a lack of privacy in your personal life. It could also
signify that others are judging or scrutinizing your intimate relationships
or personal interests. Feelings about a person or situation making
it difficult for you to enjoy yourself. Additionally, it may indicate
a fear of being caught or revealing something you'd prefer to keep
themes section for sex
for a more in-depth look at sex symbolism.
A man dreamed of having sex with Oprah. In waking life, this man was
a successful public speaker. Oprah to him represented excellent communication
skills. In this case, the sex with Oprah represented how thrilling
it felt to be so good at public speaking.
2: A woman dreamed of having sex with an android. In waking life,
she was having sex with someone she felt was socially boring and easy
to control sexually. In this case, the dream was about her most private
honest thoughts about her sex life.
3: A man dreamed of having sex with himself and suddenly seeing himself
yelling at himself. In waking life, he had embarrassed himself going
too far showing off his skills to customers the point that his business
partner had to lecture him on stopping it. In this case, the dreamer
having sex with himself may have reflected his enjoyment of being
the center of attention and showing off his skills to the customers
4: A young woman dreamed of sexual foreplay in a bedroom that never
leads to full sex. In waking life, she was considering asking a guy
she knew to the prom, but couldn't get the confidence to ask him for
real. In this case, the the prospect of sex that never happens may
have reflected unfulfilled desires and hesitations about asking the
guy to the prom that never allows a thrilling experience of going
to the prom with the guy she had a romantic crush on.
5: A woman dreamed of seeing a man having sex with a woman in front
of her. In waking life, she was amazed at how easy a man she met could
translate another language. She felt left out and stupid. In this
case, watching someone else have sex in front of her may have reflected
her feelings of being left out and witnessing someone else's thrilling
experience or ability that she could not participate in or match.
6: A man dreamed of having sex with multiple woman in which he described
the incident as "banging chicks." In waking life, he was
a police officer who was enjoying abusing authority to control people
whenever he wanted. In this case, dreaming of sex with multiple women
may have reflected the man's enjoyment of exercising his power and
authority over others in his waking life, experiencing a sense of
thrill and satisfaction in controlling people whenever he wanted.
To dream of sperm represents a final choice, or decision. It
can symbolize the motivations or intentions that lead to a final choice.
To have sperm on your face, or see it on the face of someone else
represents the consequences of unproductive or negative choices. Some
aspect of your personality has made an unproductive choice that negatively
effects you or embarasses you.
To dream of spooning represents a positive waking life situation that
give you exactly what you want. A positive experience that
leaves you totally in control, with full access, or always letting
you having your way no matter what.
The person being penetrated represents a personality trait or a person
in your life that is giving you exactly what you want. The
person doing the penetrating represents a personality trait getting
everything they want.
Spooning in a dream reflects positive waking life experiences or relationships
with people that feel good, leave you in control, and make you feel
Example: A man dreamed of spooning a woman he had just met. In
waking life he was sharing his art work with this woman over the Internet
and she always had something good to say about his art no matter what. He
felt like he could never lose or be rejected.
Threesome / Three-Way Sex
To dream of having a threesome represents multiple aspects of your
life that you are coming together for a really enjoyable experience.
Example: A young man dreamed of having three-way sex with a fellow
student and his girlfriend. In waking life he was
enjoying showing off his musical talents to his girlfriend that he
got while practicing with his fellow female student.
To dream of transgender people, or people with both make and female
sexual organs represents aspects of your personality that share both
masculine and feminine traits. Something powerful and impotent or
beautiful and insensitive.
For example, if
a man dreams of a woman he sexually desires having a penis it may
symbolize his desire for that woman being very powerful over this
decisions. Something that may allow that person in real life to control
also represent your anxieties, uncertainties, or discomfort about
masculine/feminine roles or passive/aggressive behavior.
To dream of a vibrator sex toy represents the ability to keep yourself
or someone else feeling good automatically on their own. Enjoying
an effortless experience done for you while alone. Feeling good not
needing anyone else. Feeling good by yourself leaving a situation
the way it is. Feeling good never having to believe in other people.
about a vibrator sex toy represents feeling good staying by yourself
never needing anyone else. Enjoying yourself by yourself never believing
anyone will find out.
using a vibrator sex toy on someone else represents initiating and
maintaining sexual interest in someone lonely with little effort.
The ability to easily make someone lonely feel good and keep them
waiting. Using pleasure to play with someone else's feelings and then
keep them in that state.
Example: A man
dreamed of seeing his ex-girlfriend busy in a restaurant and noticed
a vibrator plugged into the wall that. In waking life he had recently
spoken to this ex-girlfriend on Facebook after breaking up with her.
In this case the vibrator plugged into the wall may have reflected
his feelings about speaking to his ex-girlfriend having the potential
to initiate and maintain lasting sexual interest in her with little