To dream of disobeying authority represents a risk being taken to think for yourself. It may also reflect inner turmoil or conflict with your parents. Suppressing your own rigid beliefs.
To dream of disobeying your father may be a sign that you are defying your own conscience. Doing the opposite of what you think is right.
To dream of being disobeyed represents feelings of having lost respect. Thinking you are not important or perfect anymore. Negatively, it may be a sign that someone you are controlling is standing up for themselves or making their own choices.