Spanking
To dream of spanking represents a humiliating or embarrassing punishment. An embarrassing reprimand or talking down to someone. Negatively, spanking may reflect victimizing someone showing them you're the boss. Assertive acts of embarrassing domination.
To dream of being spanked may reflect feelings about an embarrassing reprimand. Feeling empty or humiliated because someone talked down to you. Feeling that someone has showed you that they are the boss.
To dream of sexual or erotic spanking represents enjoyable displays of total control or domination in some area of your life. Allowing someone else to feel good noticing themselves being powerful or assertive.