by lmg on October 13th, 2012, 11:45 pm
They have been an on and off couple for two years where they all they did was fight. They would be fine for a week to two weeks then fight for two months. He cheated on her and she treated him just as badly where she told him during one of their many fights that she wishes he would died on his way to work. He was hanging around with the wrong people and got himself in jail. While he was in jail I would go up and visit him and she would come along. One day I asked her if she wants to be with my brother and she said she didn't know. I asked her if she could ever forgive him for everything he did to her, if she could leave it in the past, and never use it against him in the future? She told me no she could never do that. So I told her then leave him alone. If you can never forgive him then let him go so that the two of you can move on and find the right person. So after that day she never came with me again to visit him and when he got out and was under house arrest he was so depressed because he wasn't talking to any of his friends because my parents wouldn't let him. So one day at church when I saw her I told her "listen he is home but no one can know. But I know he would like to talk to you so send him an email or write him on facebook." So I let my brother know that I told her so they could talk. Then she email him about how she can't stand him, how she doesn't want him to be in her life, that he isn't good enough, and the he was a piece of shit. And I saw this email and it pissed me off because I didn't have to tell her he was out. I did it for him to have someone else to talk to. Then a year later they started dating again and I was so upset. I told him that she isn't the girl for him and he wouldn't listen to me. One time he brought us over even though my mom told him she didn't want her in our house. So when I got she said hi to me and I looked at my brother and told him she needs to leave and walked away and went upstairs. When I heard her say loud why do I have to be so disrespectful, what did she ever do to him, why am I so rude. And I flipped and threw her out of the house which cause the problems where we still are at three months later. My brother doesn't speak to him and I don't speak to him. And when he does talk to me he tells me how I need to tell her sorry for what I did but to me she was in my house and if I didn't say hi she should deal with it. I already know that she won't forgive him since she told me herself. And when he is with her he is a different person. I can hear them fighting over the phone at night, and when he comes home they are fighting over the phone then too. She text him every min like crazy as if she is waiting for him to cheat on her again. There is no trust in their relationship and he doesn't see it at all. I just fear that they will get married and he will throw his life away for someone that just wants money and not him. She has never had a job in her life, and isn't going to school. She isn't going to be doing anything with her life at all. She is already having him spend money he doesn't have. He has to ask my parents for money because he is paying bills she makes. I told him what is going to happen if you get sick and can't work what is going to happen? Does her really think she is going to stay with him? The sad thing he knows I'm right but doesn't want to admit it. I just pray he opens his eyes before its to late.