Dream: We were in a room. My former college friends came with an idea that was probably about starting a restaurant. I was so excited about it. Then my husband walks in with the mistress and lays on a couch and also seems interested in the restaurant idea. I was sitting with a cutting board on my lap and the mistress starts cutting onions and green pepper on the board while also saying some ideas about the restaurant. As they are speaking I get extremely angry and ask how they can all allow her to contribute. My husband says without her then the restaurant will be a flop as she is the best meat cook. I immediately take the board and throw it down on the floor to break it but it's plastic and doesn't break. I go to my husband and start hitting him angrily in the face and groin while asking how he could do that to me and that he owes me an apology. I then bite him hard on the hand and wake up still angry
Significant Life Events: Anger, betrayal and jealousy. My husband of 11 years found a mistress and has completely abandoned me. Am afraid for myself and children and very hurt
Background: Am 34, African female, working as an engineer
Mental Illness Or Depression: No
Location: Malawi, lilongwe city
Feelings About People: I am angry and hurt by my husband because we are on separation because of the same mistress, I hate the mistress, I have cut myself from my friends because I saw that they were supporting my husbands infidelity
Relationship Status: Married
When And How Often: 09 July 2021. The dream comes in different versions but always of my husband Preferring her to me