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Falling in love with a killer

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Re: Falling in love with a killer

Postby ElizVanZee on May 5th, 2019, 4:07 pm

The scene is focused upon the aspect of your mind (represented by the male leader) providing you with a way of thinking that you are to see as guidance and are expected to follow, but here this thinking has the ability to leave you emotionally devastated- very hurt- (male is a killer) and is self destructive. Note aspects of the self (the bodies on the floor) representing ideas you have, that you have the right to use, that are being eliminated. This is something you may have difficulty believing. (Didn't see anyone being killed) The fast food place suggests a situation in which you could buy or accept ideas for emotional gratification which are not well thought out.

The emotionally devastating way of thinking is being shown to apply to your thinking about relationships (you see the killer in terms of a male-female relationship) Using such thinking you threaten yourself with the possibility of being shot or criticized by a partner as an excuse to accept counting upon your own emotionally devastating thinking. Here this is seen as very disagreeable - it "sucks" - because of the emotional self destruction involved. (the human remains & blood) This is not a laughing matter to the True Self.

The bathroom refers to a mental attitude reflecting a need to acknowledge some sin and guilt which in this case seems associated with an animal-like nature. [This often relates to sex simply for sex but without love & marriage.]The impression of a lair - an animal's home - implies such a state of feeling guilty could become a permanent state of mind.

You tell yourself that you are able to use rational thinking (drive a car) but aren't using it here. (don't have a car) A personal attitude that seems good to you (a beautiful bedroom) appears to be one in which sex is plentiful and seemingly endless. With this attitude the True Self would think of using your own mind's ability to think critically (use killer's guns) and be very critical about your thinking regarding relationships (to shoot him in the head) but you do not do this.

The sex scenes indicate that you have a very long standing intimate relationship with a self destructive way of thinking, one in which you have come to actually love this way of thinking. You seem ready to form a permanent bond with this destructive way of thinking. (marry the killer) This is something the True Self chooses not to remember happening. Instead the True Self would see that a higher level of intelligence would be called for to help you stop the wrong thinking. (FBI appear)

As the dream is very long & complex I have abbreviated it somewhat. [An example of emotionally destructive thinking would be a person of normal or above intelligence who persists is thinking they are stupid. By not acknowledging the reality they hurt themself emotionally and can actually destroy those psychological aspects of themself that provide their sense of having intelligence.]
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Re: Falling in love with a killer

Postby chase on May 7th, 2019, 11:09 am

Lets look at the story of the dream summarized. First you are playing around with a murderer almost romantically. You walk past murdered bodies. You feel forced to stay with killers and can't go home out of fear. Bathroom sex where you want to kill the killer, but it's too risky. One ending you want to marry this killer and in the second ending the FBI makes an arrest.

Killing in a dream is often a symbol for choosing change or not needing to be nice stopping something in your life. You seem conflicted with being attracted to not needing to respect things you don't like while also noticing it's not safe forever or there's a risk of getting caught. Death in general reflects change or some aspect of your life that has ended (stopped, total failure, doesn't matter anymore.)

You walk past murdered bodies shows you are noticing change that wasn't nice or didn't care about risks or consequences. Change that might not feel good for others or cause trouble.

Feeling forced to stay with the killer and not able to go home is your feeling of not being able to get yourself back to normal (home is normal state of mind). Feeling the need to remain being a jerk or feeling the need to get away with more when someone might get angry.

Bathroom sex shows you want to enjoy yourself a lot getting rid of problems or fixing something with this aspect if yourself that is emotionally dangerous. Enjoying problems being fixed for you?

One ending you want to marry shows you want permanence to behave this way. Other ending with FBI shows an ending where risky or dangerous behavior is controlled with discipline control that may be more serious than normal disciplinary controls. No laughing matter about why you can't just change your "state of mind" to avoid stopping something.

The whole dream shows you confronting whether the change happening in your life is too much while you like something about it. You know it's reckless, dangerous, or might get you in trouble, but can't get away from it completely (or at least not until a situation has played out depending on which ending is real.)
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